Sexy Saturday - Week XXX
What activity (not necessarily sexual) is a turn on for you?
Watching hockey, massages, getting drunk...more later if I can think of anything else.
September 27, 2003
August 30, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 26
Do you shave, trim, wax, or practice any other kind of hair removal 'down there'? Have you ever done it just because a partner asked you to? If you haven't, would you try it?
Yes, I mow my lawn on a regular basis. Partners always appreciate it but no one has ever asked me to do it. Even when I don't have a partner, it's nice looking and nice feeling once you get used to it. I agree with Jen that it's a little high-maintenance, but you have to get into a habit. A word to those who complain about The Itch: be persistent...it goes away eventually. Baby freshly shaved skin with aloe gel followed by baby powder.
August 02, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 23
How did you know you had an orgasm the first time you had one? Are you upset if you don't orgasm during sex?
I didn't know I was having one until the guy told me afterwards. I guess on some level I am disappointed, but I'll get over it. I find it much easier to orgasm when masturbating so as long as I get off somehow, I'll live.
July 27, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 22
Have you ever done something to impress someone and have your 'plan' backfire? What was it and how did the person you were trying to impress react? (ie Stuffed your bra/pants, cooked a romantic dinner and set the kitchen on fire)
Ummm...not really, and for that I am grateful!
July 12, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week XX
Sexy Saturday either ors:
1. Oral or Vaginal?
Put it in me, baby.
2. Hour long sweat session or quickie?
A marathon. I haven't had one of those in years!
3. Missionary or Doggie?
Most of the time, I'd say missionary. I like doggie if I'm in that kind of raunchy mood. Once I got it doggie style while wearing a short white dress. It was a most interesting mix of purity/sluttiness.
June 28, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 18
What's your favourite "come fuck me outfit" for:
a) yourself?
Personally, I prefer lingerie. I have all kinds: pastel and girly, red and skanky, black and goth and badass...as well as white and virginal. The guys seem to prefer me in jeans, Modrobes pants, and baggy hoodies, althought not necessarily all at the same time.
b) your preferred object of lust?
There is nothing quite like a nicely shaped male ass in a well-fitting pair of jeans. I also agree with Babs about the yumminess of a man in a suit. :drool
June 21, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 17
Have you 'wrecked' (deflowered, etc.) any virgins in your lifetime? Would you rather have an experienced partner or do you enjoy being the teacher?
Yes, one. I think sex has enough potential being awkward without the hazard of having one partner not have any idea what the fuck (bad pun!) he/she is doing. Although sometimes being the teacher is a good thing. Like if a guy has never experience something like swallowing for example.
June 14, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 16
What's your 'number'? Do you think it is too high, too low, or just right? Why is there a double standard for The Number in men and women?
:blush 7. I think at least 4 of them were in the span of a year, and the number is too high, but I'm quite sure it's still going to go up before I'm done. I don't know why there is a double standard, but if I ever met any guy who bragged about his conquests, I'd probably kick him in the nuts and boot him out the door.
June 06, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 15
Does size really matter? or is it technique?
Having a massive unit to play with is nice, but I definitely think there's some truth to "It's not the size of the stick, it's the magic in the wand."
May 31, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 14
Do you find porn degrading? Is there a limit for which porn is acceptable? For example, would you think less of a partner who had a few Maxims as opposed to a lovingly tended humongous video and magazine library? What's the big deal about looking at porn, anyways?
I think any porn where the people are in it unwillingly (child porn, rape) is WRONG. If it's all consensual or acting, hey, anything goes. I've never had a partner who was into porn, the only way I'd get offended by it is if he wanted to spend more time with the porn collection than me. I seriously don't know what is the big deal. Yeah, there's a little too much porn spam in my inbox and it seems like you can't click anywhere without stumbling on a porn site, but really, it's just sex. And if you have issues with seeing people in sexual acts, well...stop being so repressed already!
..and seriously, if I had a problem with porn, you wouldn't find my picture here....
I :hearts Lik-M-Aid.
May 24, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 13
How important is it for you to have an orgasm? Have you ever faked an orgasm? Describe one 'move' that will get you off every time.
It's not very important for me to have an orgasm, I'd rather have fun. Hell, I don't even O every time I masturbate. Yes, I have faked orgasms. What else can you do when you're with a 10 second wonder? Licks and kisses to that spot on the back of my neck..will get me very close to the Big O every time!
May 17, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 12
At what age did you lose your virginity? Do you think virginity is overrated? Was sex what you expected it to be, or were you (un)pleasantly surprised? Would you have liked to wait longer to have sex?
I was 19 (January 1998). I think virginity is overrated, because it all boils down to this: it shouldn't be a life-altering experience, it's just another thing that you have or haven't done, like driving a car or travelling to Europe. I always expected sex (the first time, at least) to be this big romantic thing...I ended up having a one night stand. I think I wouldn't have been mature enough to handle sex at an earlier age and I definitely am too horny of a girl to have waited longer. :wink
May 10, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 11
What is your preferred method of birth control, and why?
The pill. I've found a brand that doesn't give terrible side effects. Whenever I can, I prefer not to use condoms. They make sex seem too 'sterile'. I'm all for sharing the bodily fluids, baby! Yeah, I know it's not safe, but it's so much more fun!
April 26, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 9
Have you ever gotten a piercing (tongue, nipple, genital) for possible sexual purposes? Did it improve things or was it all hype? Does sex with one or more of those piercings turn you on more?
I have a tongue and a nipple piercing. The tongue piercing has gotten "rave reviews" but I don't have sensitive breasts or nipples so that piercing is for the aesthetic value only. I would love to have sex with someone with a genital piercing, it is one of the things I want to experience at least once in my life.
April 19, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 8
Have you ever participated in a threesome? If you haven't, would you want to? Would you prefer there to be 2 guys or 2 girls? Explain why.
I haven't yet been in a threesome, I had an opportunity a few years back that fell through, which would have been ideal, because none of us were in a relationship, so it would have been fun with no strings attached. I would prefer for there to be 2 girls and one guy, for a couple of reasons:
1. I'd feel weird to have 2 guys servicing me.
2. I wouldn't want to watch the 2 guys go at it, that doesn't do a thing for me.
If I ever had the chance to be in a threesome, I imagine that it would be rather nerve wracking, because it would be my first same sex experience as well.
I would like to know why there is a double standard regarding threesomes; it's just about every man's fantasy to watch two women having sex, yet it's considered quite gay for a woman to watch men having sex.
April 12, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 7
I just went to a porn shop this week and picked up a few "necessities" and to look at possible replacements for my broken purple friend.
Have you ever been to a porn shop? Or would you rather do your sexy shopping from a catalogue or online? Describe or provide links to your favourite shops. What kind of items do you like to look at/buy?
April 05, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 6
Have you ever done anything kinky? What do you consider to be kinky?
As I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, I engaged in the bondage thing once. I was the one who got tied up, and I didn't find it very exciting.
In the future, I'd like to try hot wax play, and...
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I'd really like to have sex in a coffin, but I don't know if I'll ever find a willing partner for that.
March 29, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 5
Spit or swallow? Why do you prefer it?
Swallowing wins every time. There are 2 reasons:
i) the guys love it (duh!)
ii) I don't get the logistics of spitting. How do you do it graciously? I imagine that leaning over and expectorating into the garbage can looks pretty rude. Besides, it doesn't really taste all that bad, imho.
March 22, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 4
What's your deepest, darkest fantasy? Have you ever had a sexual fantasy come true, but turn out to be a total disaster?
I have 3:
1) Sex on top of a grand piano.
2) Sex at centre ice at ACC. (On a blanket or something, duh!)
3) I have to admit, I can't tell you..it is just a little too weird! Feel free to take a wild guess though. :shocked
As for total disasters, I let someone tie me to the bed once, and it just wasn't all that it was cracked up to be.
March 15, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 3
What turns you on? How have your turn-ons and turn-offs changed over the years?
The Joke List: Jello, leg warmers, hairy knees, amputee porn and giraffes.
The Serious List: nice hands, beautiful eyes, strategic licks and kisses in sensitive places :wink a sense of humour, intelligent conversation.
The only thing that's really changed is that my standards of "drop-dead gorgeous" is different. It's more like, the beauty on the inside reflects the physical beauty. Something like that.
March 08, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 2
What is your opinion on porn? Do you find it degrading or arousing? Are there any kinds of porn in particular that you love or hate?
I think porn is great. People who get all offended by it are probably repressed somehow, whether they realize it or not. I don't care for schoolgirl bondage porn, scat/watersports, or bukkake, and I sure hate that beastiality porn where they claim super-hardcore pics but it turns out to be a girl superimposed over a barnyard scene.
March 01, 2003
Sexy Saturday - Week 1
Again, as I promised last Saturday, I now proudly present my new weekly meme, Sexy Saturday!
How often do you masturbate? Do you use toys and lube, or your fingers? Any "visual aids"?
I wank it a couple of times a week, always use one of my purple friends and lube. As for visual aids, I either use my overactive imagination or read a story from asstr.org.